A New Brother?

I mentioned earlier in the month everything that happened with my brother's friend, Tyler. Well, now it's time for an update.

He lived with us for about 10 days. He seemed to get somewhat comfortable, and everyone really got used to him being around. He's a great kid, very nice and very funny. We had been urging him for a while to tell his family that he wanted to stay with us; not only was it what we wanted, but it was what he wanted too. He didn't want to go live with one of his aunts. He didn't know them. He felt awkward. But despite this, he said he didn't want to start a confrontation. Then one day, his mind was made up for him.

Out of the blue, his Aunt Delight, a heavy woman with spiky blonde hair and a fuzzy husband, pulled up to our house. She told Tyler he was going with them. With little resistance, he helped them pack his stuff into their pick-up truck. We all watched, disappointed, and cringed a bit when they flopped his expensive TV into the bed of the truck. Tyler walked in one last time, mumbled goodbye, and they were off.

It was a pretty somber few days after that. He wasn't with us for long, but it sure felt like it. He was beginning to feel like part of the family. Then four days later, when I was spending the night at Taylor's, I got a phone call. It was my mom, telling me that Tyler was back.

In the four days he spent at Delight's house, they didn't feed him. The night before, he went to a friend's house, and was supposed to be back by 10:30. He decided he wanted to stay the night, so gave his aunt a call. She didn't answer, so he decided to leave a quick voicemail. When she returned his call, she screamed at him, saying that if he didn't come back that night, he wasn't welcome back. By this time, the friend's parents couldn't drive him, and his aunt sure as hell wasn't offering a ride. So he stayed. That morning, he had his friend drive him straight to my house. He's been here ever since, and he's adjusting. He asks permission for everything; if he can use shampoo, if he can have more food, if he can turn on the air conditioner. We just laugh and tell him he doesn't have to ask. It's crazy.

Since then, his Aunt Delight and Aunt Dawn have been at our house twice. Starting arguments, yelling, accusing my mom of saying Tyler's mother is better off dead, accusing Tyler of being a liar and being on drugs. One thing, even more unexpected, was the return of Tyler's father. Tyler hadn't spoken to him since he was 9.

We're aiming to get temporary guardianship of him. Tyler's father signed the papers, and we have his consent. DCF did an inspection, and told us that we have their recommendation. There will be a hearing on August 12th, because Delight is going for full permanent guardianship. She'll never get it. She's a horrible woman, and her house looks like something out of Hoarders. If all goes well, I might technically end up with a new brother before the end of the summer. I'm looking forward to it.

Multitasking with Stila

I'm currently waiting around for my mom to get home, so we can set up the payment plan for my tuition (which is due tomorrow). So with the free time, I figured I'd make a post I was thinking about.

I commute to school, and this September I will be facing every commuter's greatest nightmare: 8 am classes.

What happens with those? It means I sleep as late as I can, until about 10 minutes before I absolutely HAVE to dash out the door, or I'll be late. Which doesn't leave much time for makeup, now does it?

That's where Stila comes in. I've never seen a brand with so many multitasking products. Here, I'll show you just one (please bear with me on the photos, my camera isn't exactly the best):

Stila's Lip and Cheek Stains ($24 each on Sephora.com for .08 oz):

Left to right: Mango Crush, Cherry Crush, and Pomegranate Crush.

Left to right: Pomegranate, Cherry, Mango.

I like these a lot. Really. They make life so much easier. The colors of the packaging look a little menacing, but they're very wearable. My favorite one is mango crush right now. You might not be able to tell from the picture, but it's a little more opaque than the others, and it's shimmery. Pomegranate is a plummy-pink, Cherry is red, and Mango is a shimmery coral. There are also several other colors to choose from.

They look like lipglosses in the picture, but that's because of the way I globbed them on my wrist. When you put them on, they settle completely into your lips, and voila! Your lips, just better. No glossy mess, no cakey lipstick look. Just blot them a bit, and it doesn't feel like you're wearing anything. Used as a blush, they blend quickly and easily into your cheek. So here's my run down:

Likes-
-Quick application
-Very long lasting
-Not sticky
-Versatile
-No nasty felt-tip pen crap to deal with

Dislikes-
-Slightly drying (though easily remedied with a swipe of lip balm on top)
-The slightest dry spot or unevenness on your lips gets highlighted
-The price tag (although I got these in a bundle, for about the price of one!)

Bottom line, I love these. They're a bit pricey, but worth it to me. Lip stains are lip color in its finest (in my opinion) and few do it better than Stila.

Direction?

So I've been thinking a lot about this blog, and what I want to do with it. I'm still going to use it to talk about my life from time to time, but I want it to have a POINT. Because let's be honest, my life isn't very exciting right now. I spend a lot of time trying to waste time.

So the first thing that came to mind? Makeup. Makeup is something I've loved for a while. It's a pick-me-up to get a new eyeshadow or mascara in the mail. I love how you can manipulate yourself--and others--with just a sweep of something sparkly.

I figure I'll just do lots of reviews and stuff. We'll see how this works out. If anyone has any ideas, let me know!

EDIT: I'm thinking of gearing this blog toward poor-college-girl beauty. I've used a lot of expensive designer makeup, and perhaps I can use that experience to see how drugstore products compare. Hmmmm....

OPI

Om nom nom?

I'm not really huge on nail polish, mostly because I'm lazy, and because I'm pretty bad at applying it. And even when I DO apply it nicely, you can guarantee I will fuck it up somehow. But when I do want a bit of color on my nails, there's only one brand I go to--and that's OPI.

With things like Wet N' Wild, or NYC, I've found you REALLY get what you pay for. 99 cents will give you about 6 hours of chip-free nail polish. On the other hand... the fact that NARS charges $15 for one bottle of (not-so-rave-worthy) nail polish is a crime. OPI gives great performance, AND a decent price; What is it, about $7 per bottle? But OPI offers something other brands don't.

Russian themed colors. Oh yes.

Because of my love of Mother Russia, I have officially decided to collect all of the Russian themed shades. So far, all I have is Russian Navy. But I guarantee you, these following beauties will be in my possession soon as well:

-Vodka & Caviar
-St. Petersburgundy
-Siberian Nights
-Midnight In Moscow
-Suzi Says Da!
-An Affair In Red Square

Then, after a Google search, I found out about these shades. I'm pretty sure they've been discontinued, but SOMEONE might have them:

-Boris And Natasha
-Catherine The Grape
-Kreme De La Kremlin
-Cosmo-Not Tonight Honey
-Ruble For Your Thoughts

Kind of a weird and silly post, but I love me some Russia.

Everything Can Wait.

A lot has happened in the past 24 hours. Although really, it's only been one thing, it just felt like a lot.

Yesterday, at 4:30 in the afternoon, my brother's friend Tyler found his mom dead. He woke up around 4:30, and saw her on the couch. He didn't have a phone to call 911, so he messaged Tony through his Xbox 360. Tony didn't know what to think at first, I guess, but he sprinted over there with Amber nonetheless. When they got there, Tony used his phone to call the police. I didn't find out until later, that Tony and Amber also saw the body. That kind of upset me.

After Tony called the police, he called my mom. Me and her went over there. We got there just as the first cop pulled up. They asked Tyler and his grandmother a lot of questions. Tyler wasn't crying, he was just kind of sitting on the ground. But he still didn't look good.

Tyler's mom was a drinker. A really bad one. But that didn't make this any easier, or more expected. His grandmother was really a mess. Because of this, my mom offered to let Tyler stay over our house for the night.

We brought him to Tony's baseball game. Amber talked to him the whole time. Will came to the house after, and spent some time with everyone. Anything to keep Tyler occupied. They all ended up going to see The Last Airbender.

I guess the one thing Tyler's really worried about is what's going to happen to him. He doesn't want to live with his grandma, and he hasn't spoken to his father since he was young. Honestly, he might end up living with us. He really might. I don't think anyone would mind, either. He's a really nice kid, and one of Tony's oldest friends.

I guess this really took a toll on both Amber and Will. Amber's mom also drinks a lot, and Will's dad is addicted to pain killers. It made them both realize that their parents could end up the same way, I guess. Will was really a mess.

I don't know how the next few days will unfold, but hopefully things will look up.